Right Below — Kink-Y's intimate sex-positive basement party in Berlin

Right Below: Berlin's Intimate Sex-Positive Party

Sixty guests, an iconic Berlin basement, and no pressure to be anyone but yourself.

What Right Below Actually Is

Right Below is built deliberately not to be big. That is the whole design: keep it small enough to stay cosy and intimate, so the night feels like one room you are part of rather than a crowd you have to get through. It sits on the calendar as Kink-Y x Right Below, and the name is meant literally — this happens underground, in one of the most iconic sex-positive basement spaces in Berlin. The invitation ends on the line that says it best: a warm midweek gathering right below the city.

Where a big Berlin play party runs on scale, Right Below runs on the opposite instinct. Doors at 20:30, a capped guest list, and an evening built around an after-work rhythm.

The current edition is capped at sixty guests — but the number alone is not what does it. It works because the guest list is put together with real thought, so the mix genuinely connects, and because the space itself does half the work. There is a bar and dance floor to talk, drink and lose an hour in. There are several rooms given over to play. And there is the Vault — the room nobody photographs and everybody remembers, where what happens stays locked in and stays vivid long afterwards. That combination is one of a kind in Berlin's sex-positive scene. Conversations that start early are often still going an hour later, because the room does not keep resetting around you.

What Makes Right Below Feel Different

It is never one thing. The scale matters — but so does the space you get to roam, who is in it with you, and a night that is given the time to build.

A Space With Range

A bar and dance floor for the loud, social half of the night. Quieter rooms for play whenever you want them. And then there is the Vault. Changing the entire mood of your evening takes one doorway.

A Room That Is Chosen

The guest list is put together with thought rather than filled in the order people click. It is a large part of why the mix works, why conversations land, and why people find each other here so easily.

Faces You Already Know

By the end of the first hour the same faces keep coming back around, and strangers have turned into people you have already laughed with. That ease is what makes both saying yes and saying no feel completely natural.

A Night With Room to Build

Doors at 20:30 and no rush to anywhere. Arrive straight from work, ease in over a drink, and let the evening escalate at whatever speed suits you.

What You Find Downstairs

Every edition is built from the same handful of ingredients, arranged a little differently each time. None of it is compulsory — you simply enjoy whatever interests you.

Body Painting

Body painting runs through the evening and is the most reliable icebreaker in the room. Getting painted, or painting someone else, gives shy hands something to do in the first hour.

Sensual Massage

We often have someone giving activating sensual massage through the evening — a slow, deliberate way to drop out of your head and back into your body. Whoever is working that night is named on the event page.

Unique Play Areas

The basement has play areas you would not get from a standard club floorplan — corners with their own character, built into a space that was never meant to be a club.

Stocked Bar and Snacks

A stocked bar and small snacks throughout the evening. Nobody arrives at their best after a working day, and the bar is where most of the conversations begin.

Music, Kept Underneath

Music is chosen to sit under the room rather than on top of it, at a volume you can still talk over. We often bring in a guest DJ; when we do, they are named on the event page.

Somewhere to Sink Into

Soft corners built for the slower half of a good night: sink in with your drink, let the music do the work, and fall into one of those long, unhurried conversations with whoever ends up beside you.

Nothing Here Is Required

The most common newcomer question is some version of this: if I come to a sex-positive party and do not want to have sex, is that a problem? No. It is not even unusual.

The invitation says it plainly — some may explore intimacy, some may lounge, some may simply enjoy the company and the setting. All three are the evening working as intended. Nothing is scheduled that you have to be ready for, and nothing on this page is a promise of what will happen to you.

Right Below is for adults only, and all genders and identities are welcome. Consent here is the ordinary kind: you ask, you accept the answer, and a no costs nothing and needs no explanation. This is also where the size pays off most. A room of sixty is a room the organisers and the Kink-Y core group can actually hold — people who know each other, who look out for each other, and who are paying attention all evening. Plenty of friendly eyes, nothing lost in a crowd, and someone always close by if you want them.

Phones stay away. No photos, no video, anywhere downstairs. In a room this size everyone can see everyone, and that only feels good because nothing leaves it — so the camera stays in your bag, and it never points at anyone.

New to this? Read our consent policy and our event guidelines first. They are short, they are what everyone in the room has already agreed to, and they are the quickest way to arrive knowing how the night works.

How the Evening Tends to Go

No two editions are identical and there is no programme to keep up with, but the shape of the night has been consistent across all three so far.

  1. 20:30 — Doors Open

    Come early rather than fashionably late. The first hour is the easiest time to meet people: everyone is in the same mode, coat off, drink in hand, nobody has settled into a group yet.

  2. The Warm-Up

    Painting starts, the bar fills, the music stays low. Most first-timers spend this stretch talking and looking around, which is exactly what it is for.

  3. The Room Opens Up

    The play areas start being used. Some guests move that way, plenty do not, and both halves of the room stay busy.

  4. 03:00–04:00 — The Long Tail

    Past editions have run to three and four in the morning. There is no closing ritual and no reason to stay to the end — leave whenever it feels right.

Who Comes, and What to Wear

The crowd is mixed the way Berlin crowds usually are: couples and singles, scene veterans and people at their second event ever, a broad spread of ages, genders and orientations. Because the room is small it leans towards people who already know somebody in it, which is why we always suggest starting at a Kink-Y Berlin munch if you are arriving cold. It is free, everyone keeps their clothes on, and you walk in here already knowing a few faces. It also weighs in your favour when we put the guest list together. People we have already met over a drink are the ones we can place with confidence, and they get approved noticeably more often.

We keep the ticket price as low as we possibly can, and that is a deliberate choice rather than a promotion. We are a community before we are a party, and a community that prices people out is not really open to everyone. Inclusivity has to mean money as well — nobody should miss a night like this because of what is in their account that week. The current edition is €15 per person, or €30 for a couple, which sits at the very accessible end of the Berlin play-party range.

The dress code is sexy, kinky and colourful. Fetish gear, lingerie, or one strong piece over something simple all work beautifully. Give yourself a reason to change after work — it is half the fun. Colour is worth leaning into, since body painting is part of the night — and anything that reacts under UV is an especially good call, because the space is full of black lights.

The listing gives a Berlin postcode rather than a street address, which is standard for Kink-Y parties. Registering is how you get the rest of the details.

Past Editions

Every edition of Right Below so far. Each one has its own page with the line-up, location and details of that night.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Right Below?

Right Below is Kink-Y's intimate sex-positive party, held in one of the most iconic underground basement spaces in Berlin. The current edition is capped at 60 guests and opens at 20:30. Inside there is a bar and dance floor, several rooms given over to play, the Vault, plus body painting and small snacks through the evening.

What time does Right Below start and finish?

Doors open at 20:30, and coming in the first hour is the easiest way to meet people. The night itself runs late: past editions have ended at 03:00 and 04:00. You are free to leave whenever you like. Each edition page carries that edition's own times and its booking cut-off.

Who can come to Right Below?

Adults only. All genders and identities are welcome, and singles and couples both attend. If you are new to the community, come to a Kink-Y Berlin munch first — it is free, clothed and social, and arriving here with a few familiar faces makes the first party far easier.

What should I wear?

The dress code is sexy, kinky and colourful. Fetish wear, lingerie, or one bold piece over something simple all work. Dressing for the night is part of the night. Colour is worth leaning into, since body painting is part of the evening.

Do I have to play or take part in anything?

No. The invitation puts it plainly: some guests explore intimacy, some lounge, some simply enjoy the company and the setting, and all three are normal ways to spend the night. Nothing is required, nobody is owed your attention, and a no needs no explanation. If something feels off, tell one of the hosts.

How much is a ticket and how do I book?

The current edition is €15 per person and €30 for a couple ticket, with the guest list capped at 60. Price and capacity are set per edition, so the event page is always the source of truth. You can book from the event page here on kink-y.de. Most people use our app instead: it makes booking quicker, shows the guest list filling up in real time, and lets you connect with the people you met once the night is over. It lives at meetonnixie.app.

Come Down and Unwind

If a small, warm, low-pressure room sounds better than a thousand-person dancefloor, this is the one to try. Doors at 20:30, a capped guest list, and no expectation beyond showing up.

Open the next edition for the date, the price and registration. If nothing is scheduled yet, the past editions above are all still there to read.

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