Telegram Rules

No unsolicited DMs • No sharing private info without consent

• Don't contact other users privately without their consent
• Use @kinkyProfileBot to request DMs respectfully
• Never share someone's real name or private information without explicit consent

Kind, polite, and inclusive communication

• Maintain friendly, polite, and inclusive communication at all times
• Be mindful of how your words may be received by others
• Assume good intentions from fellow community members
• Be mindful of your impact — in a group of thousands with different backgrounds, languages, and sensitivities, a single message can unintentionally hurt many. Think before you post
• Avoid conversations that could divide the community — focus on what brings us together

No discrimination, targeting, or hurtful content of any kind

• No generalizations or negative statements about any group (nationality, gender, orientation, body type, etc.)
• No statistics, stereotypes, or generalizations targeting any group
• No irony, sarcasm, or memes that could offend or hurt someone
• Nothing that could make any member feel unwelcome or uncomfortable
• Holding individuals responsible for the actions of their ancestors or relatives is considered targeting and has no place here

Sexuality belongs outside of politics

• No political discussions of any kind
• We believe sexuality exists independently of politics
• No statements linking politics with sexuality or identity
• This is a space for connection, not political debate

Resolve conflicts calmly • Don't fuel arguments or negativity

• If conflicts arise, resolve them calmly and amicably
• Please refrain from fueling arguments or adding to negativity in the group
• Take heated discussions to private messages when necessary

Only verified members can make promotional posts

• Only verified members can sell items (tickets, clothing, etc.)
• Only verified members can promote events
• Events must not overlap with Kink-Y events
• Each event can be shared once only
• No links to other groups or forwarded posts from other groups

Don't repeat messages across multiple topics

• Don't post the same message on more than one topic
• Repetitive posting is considered spam — please avoid it
• Don't say "Hi" or "I am new here"; instead, use the right topic for a proper introduction or organically join a conversation

Nudes/XXX content only in "NUDES / XXX" topic

• Explicit content is ONLY allowed in the dedicated "NUDES / XXX" topic through @kinkyProfileBot
• When posting pictures with others: faces must be invisible OR the other person must be part of the group and have given consent

English only • Keep it accessible for everyone

• As an international group, English is our primary language
• Please use English so everyone can participate

Pick the right topic • Keep discussions organized

• Use designated topics as subgroups within the main group
• Update your Telegram app if you don't see topics
• Posts in the wrong topic may be moved or removed to keep things organized

Berlin-relevant content • Use "INTERNATIONAL" for other locations

• Keep posts Berlin-relevant as most members are Berlin-based
• Use "INTERNATIONAL" topic for events outside Berlin
• Use the right topic so everyone finds what they're looking for