The Kink-Y collective runs sex-positive events across Berlin: club nights with our partner venues, beginner-friendly munches where nobody plays and everyone talks, workshops, and outdoor gatherings in summer. Some are open to anyone who books a spot; others are guest-list only or need an application first — each event page says which.

New to the scene? Read the event guidelines for what to expect at the door and inside, and how consent works at our events before your first night. Our guide to sex parties in Berlin explains what the different kinds of night are and how they differ. The free Skip List covers skip-the-line entry at our partner venues, and the Kink-Y Pass adds member discounts on Kink-Y events — each event page shows its own price.

Upcoming Events

[NAKED] Foam Party
21:00

[NAKED] Foam Party

[ NAKED ] takes over Club Sauna, former Untertage, and strips things back to heat, bodies, and instinct. A raw, immersive night where water, steam, foam, and sound blur the edges between dance, play, and presence.

On the decks: Wiebe Roose - 23:00-01:00

- Sauna and steam room to melt the surface, with 2 infusions.
- 23:00 until 02:00 FOAM, where movement turns anonymous and playful.
- Dedicated play areas, showers to reset, and a bar to keep you flowing.

This is [ NAKED ] underground, wet, loud, and physical. A place to sweat together, drift between scenes, and let the night take shape around you.

As with all our events, we strive to create a safe, non-judgmental, inclusive and consensual space for exploring group intimacy, and our attention to detail ensures an unforgettable experience for all who attend.

📍 Club Sauna
RIGHT BELOW
20:30

RIGHT BELOW

A quiet invitation to come down and unwind.

We gather in one of the most iconic under ground sex positive spaces in Berlin, for a more intimate kind of night. With max. of 60 guests, right below, is designed as a cosy after-work escape where conversation, music, and curiosity flow naturally.

Expect a relaxed, sex-positive atmosphere with body painting, massage, unique play areas and a stocked bar throughout the evening.

Some may explore intimacy, some may lounge, some may simply enjoy the company and the setting.

A warm midweek gathering right below the city.

See you there!

📍 14197
Ecstatic Dance
18:00

Ecstatic Dance

An evening of ecstatic dance, joy, and free expression. We gather barefoot on the dance floor and move through rhythm, energy and emotion.

Upon arrival, enjoy a cup of cacao to awaken the senses and ease into the experience.

This is an invitation to step out of the mind and into the body. To explore movement, connection, playfulness and authentic expression. 

No talking on the dance floor. No performance. No judgement. Dance alone, or with others, or explore a deeper level of intimacy.

Following the dance and sound healing, the whole space opens into free flow with sauna, connection and intimate possibilities.

PROGRAM

18:00 - 18:30 | Arrival 
18:30 - 18:45 | Cacao
18:45 - 19:00 | Connection Activities
19:00 - 21:30 | Ecstatic Dance
21:30 - 21:45 | Sound Healing
22:00 - 00:00 | Free Flow, Sauna & Connection

📍 UHU
Kink-Y Munch
19:30

Kink-Y Munch

✨ Our monthly Munch is where the community comes together.

Some people come to catch up with friends. Others come to meet new people. And many join Kink-Y for the very first time. Whatever brings you here, you'll find a relaxed atmosphere, genuine conversations, and a welcoming crowd.

The Munch is open to anyone who wants to connect with our S+ community, meet the people behind it, and become part of it at their own pace. It's also the perfect first step before joining our other events.

To keep things fresh, every Munch brings something a little different. A live performance, a special guest, an unexpected surprise... you'll have to be there to find out.

As always, respect, consent, and inclusivity are at the heart of everything we do.

🍸 Come for a drink.
💜 Stay for the people.
✨ Leave with a story.

📍 Crack Bellmer
Ecstatic Dance +18
18:00

Ecstatic Dance +18

An evening of ecstatic dance, joy, and free expression. We gather barefoot on the dance floor and move through rhythm, energy and emotion.

Upon arrival, enjoy a cup of cacao to awaken the senses and ease into the experience.

This is an invitation to step out of the mind and into the body. To explore movement, connection, playfulness and authentic expression. 

No talking on the dance floor. No performance. No judgement. Dance alone, or with others, or explore a deeper level of intimacy.

Following the dance and sound healing, the whole space opens into free flow with sauna, connection and intimate possibilities.

PROGRAM

18:00 - 18:30 | Arrival 
18:30 - 18:45 | Cacao
18:45 - 19:00 | Connection Activities
19:00 - 21:30 | Ecstatic Dance
21:30 - 21:45 | Sound Healing
22:00 - 00:00 | Free Flow, Sauna & Connection

📍 UHU
Kink-Y x Fluidity Festival
12:00

Kink-Y x Fluidity Festival

Fluidity Festival wants to give you the possibility to explore all the different flavours of the sex-positive culture in a fluid way. That's why they co-create this festival together with established communities and crews. 

Each community creates their own space through music, performances, play-areas, workshops, and decoration. 

For the first edition of Fluidity, the Kink-Y crew joins with “Sensoria — Inner Garden”.

An immersive experience. A journey through the senses:

Taste, sight, sound, touch, scent, and inner sensation.

A space to explore perception, connection, and the body, individually and together. 

Kink-Y offers you access to this experience via our community ticket link. (ticket price around 219E/3 days)

More info on the festival at : fluidityfestival.com/

📍 Wilde Möhre Festival Site

Past Events

Munch @ Allan's
19:00

Munch @ Allan's

Join us at Allans Breakfast Club & Wine Bar, for a relaxed and friendly gathering. This event is all about connecting with others in a welcoming environment. We'll be meeting at a cozy venue, perfect for good conversations and new friendships.
📍 Prenzlauer Berg
Kink-Y x Unleashed.Berlin
22:00

Kink-Y x Unleashed.Berlin

We’re excited to collaborate on the debut edition of Unleashed.Berlin, a new techno-focused, sex-positive party series launching at Insomnia Club. Designed for those who love high-quality music but also appreciate the freedom and inclusivity of a sex-positive environment, Unleashed.Berlin creates a space where dancing, exploring, and connecting come together without pressure—offering a fresh take on Berlin’s legendary party culture.
📍 Insomnia
Kink-Y x Symbiotikka
21:00

Kink-Y x Symbiotikka

We’re bringing our community straight to the heart of Symbiotikka—one of Berlin’s most electrifying parties. As part of our collaboration, we’re offering skip-the-line access for a limited number of Kink-Y members.
📍 Fhain
Kink-Y x Symbiotikka
21:00

Kink-Y x Symbiotikka

We’re bringing our community straight to the heart of Symbiotikka—one of Berlin’s most electrifying parties. As part of our collaboration, we’re offering skip-the-line access for a limited number of Kink-Y members.
📍 Fhain
Drinks & Bubbles
21:00

Drinks & Bubbles

On March 14th, we bring you another night of connection, pleasure, and uninhibited exploration. This time, guest masseurs Nico and Melanie will be offering sensual massages—because touch is just as intoxicating as taste.
📍 Friedrichshain
Munch @ Allan's
19:00

Munch @ Allan's

Join us at Allans Breakfast Club & Wine Bar, for a relaxed and friendly gathering. This event is all about connecting with others in a welcoming environment. We'll be meeting at a cozy venue, perfect for good conversations and new friendships.
📍 Prenzlauer Berg
Kink-Y x Four Play
20:00

Kink-Y x Four Play

We’ve teamed up with Fourplay, one of Berlin’s hottest parties, to bring our community exclusive perks. As part of our collaboration, we’re offering: Skip-the-line access Discounted tickets – limited availability. Registration is only available via our telegram Bot. Gender balance will be maintained, with priority given to our most active members.
📍 Fhain
Attachment
16:00

Attachment

Attachment: How It Shapes Your Relationships & What You Can Do to Navigate It.How does attachment shape the way we love in non-monogamous relationships? How can we recognise our patterns, break unhealthy cycles, and build secure, fulfilling connections?
📍 Friedrichshain
Polyamory in Family Dynamics
14:00

Polyamory in Family Dynamics

How does polyamory fit into family life? What happens when children are involved, or when partners have different visions of family and commitment? Join us for an engaging guided conversation with Relationship Coach Maria Botan as we explore the nuances of polyamory within long-term partnerships.
📍 Friedrichshain
Valentine Noir
21:00

Valentine Noir

On February 14th, skip the clichés and dive into a night of pure desire. Think latex, leather, lace, or anything that teases the imagination. Come as bold and provocative as you dare. Dim red lights and moody beats will set the tone in a gothic-inspired space designed for mingling and exploration.
📍 Friedrichshain
Munch - Taste Of The Noble
19:00

Munch - Taste Of The Noble

Relaxed vibes. Great company. Good wine. Join us at a cozy wine bar for an evening of connection and conversation with fellow kinky, sex-positive souls. Whether you’re here to make new friends, swap stories, or simply enjoy the atmosphere, this is the perfect space to mingle and be yourself.
📍 Friedrichshain
Munch @ Allan's
19:00

Munch @ Allan's

Join us at Allans Breakfast Club & Wine Bar, for a relaxed and friendly gathering. This event is all about connecting with others in a welcoming environment. We'll be meeting at a cozy venue, perfect for good conversations and new friendships.
📍 Prenzlauer Berg