The Kink-Y collective runs sex-positive events across Berlin: club nights with our partner venues, beginner-friendly munches where nobody plays and everyone talks, workshops, and outdoor gatherings in summer. Some are open to anyone who books a spot; others are guest-list only or need an application first — each event page says which.

New to the scene? Read the event guidelines for what to expect at the door and inside, and how consent works at our events before your first night. Our guide to sex parties in Berlin explains what the different kinds of night are and how they differ. The free Skip List covers skip-the-line entry at our partner venues, and the Kink-Y Pass adds member discounts on Kink-Y events — each event page shows its own price.

Upcoming Events

[NAKED] Foam Party
21:00

[NAKED] Foam Party

[ NAKED ] takes over Club Sauna, former Untertage, and strips things back to heat, bodies, and instinct. A raw, immersive night where water, steam, foam, and sound blur the edges between dance, play, and presence.

On the decks: Wiebe Roose - 23:00-01:00

- Sauna and steam room to melt the surface, with 2 infusions.
- 23:00 until 02:00 FOAM, where movement turns anonymous and playful.
- Dedicated play areas, showers to reset, and a bar to keep you flowing.

This is [ NAKED ] underground, wet, loud, and physical. A place to sweat together, drift between scenes, and let the night take shape around you.

As with all our events, we strive to create a safe, non-judgmental, inclusive and consensual space for exploring group intimacy, and our attention to detail ensures an unforgettable experience for all who attend.

📍 Club Sauna
RIGHT BELOW
20:30

RIGHT BELOW

A quiet invitation to come down and unwind.

We gather in one of the most iconic under ground sex positive spaces in Berlin, for a more intimate kind of night. With max. of 60 guests, right below, is designed as a cosy after-work escape where conversation, music, and curiosity flow naturally.

Expect a relaxed, sex-positive atmosphere with body painting, massage, unique play areas and a stocked bar throughout the evening.

Some may explore intimacy, some may lounge, some may simply enjoy the company and the setting.

A warm midweek gathering right below the city.

See you there!

📍 14197
Ecstatic Dance
18:00

Ecstatic Dance

An evening of ecstatic dance, joy, and free expression. We gather barefoot on the dance floor and move through rhythm, energy and emotion.

Upon arrival, enjoy a cup of cacao to awaken the senses and ease into the experience.

This is an invitation to step out of the mind and into the body. To explore movement, connection, playfulness and authentic expression. 

No talking on the dance floor. No performance. No judgement. Dance alone, or with others, or explore a deeper level of intimacy.

Following the dance and sound healing, the whole space opens into free flow with sauna, connection and intimate possibilities.

PROGRAM

18:00 - 18:30 | Arrival 
18:30 - 18:45 | Cacao
18:45 - 19:00 | Connection Activities
19:00 - 21:30 | Ecstatic Dance
21:30 - 21:45 | Sound Healing
22:00 - 00:00 | Free Flow, Sauna & Connection

📍 UHU
Kink-Y Munch
19:30

Kink-Y Munch

✨ Our monthly Munch is where the community comes together.

Some people come to catch up with friends. Others come to meet new people. And many join Kink-Y for the very first time. Whatever brings you here, you'll find a relaxed atmosphere, genuine conversations, and a welcoming crowd.

The Munch is open to anyone who wants to connect with our S+ community, meet the people behind it, and become part of it at their own pace. It's also the perfect first step before joining our other events.

To keep things fresh, every Munch brings something a little different. A live performance, a special guest, an unexpected surprise... you'll have to be there to find out.

As always, respect, consent, and inclusivity are at the heart of everything we do.

🍸 Come for a drink.
💜 Stay for the people.
✨ Leave with a story.

📍 Crack Bellmer
Ecstatic Dance +18
18:00

Ecstatic Dance +18

An evening of ecstatic dance, joy, and free expression. We gather barefoot on the dance floor and move through rhythm, energy and emotion.

Upon arrival, enjoy a cup of cacao to awaken the senses and ease into the experience.

This is an invitation to step out of the mind and into the body. To explore movement, connection, playfulness and authentic expression. 

No talking on the dance floor. No performance. No judgement. Dance alone, or with others, or explore a deeper level of intimacy.

Following the dance and sound healing, the whole space opens into free flow with sauna, connection and intimate possibilities.

PROGRAM

18:00 - 18:30 | Arrival 
18:30 - 18:45 | Cacao
18:45 - 19:00 | Connection Activities
19:00 - 21:30 | Ecstatic Dance
21:30 - 21:45 | Sound Healing
22:00 - 00:00 | Free Flow, Sauna & Connection

📍 UHU
Kink-Y x Fluidity Festival
12:00

Kink-Y x Fluidity Festival

Fluidity Festival wants to give you the possibility to explore all the different flavours of the sex-positive culture in a fluid way. That's why they co-create this festival together with established communities and crews. 

Each community creates their own space through music, performances, play-areas, workshops, and decoration. 

For the first edition of Fluidity, the Kink-Y crew joins with “Sensoria — Inner Garden”.

An immersive experience. A journey through the senses:

Taste, sight, sound, touch, scent, and inner sensation.

A space to explore perception, connection, and the body, individually and together. 

Kink-Y offers you access to this experience via our community ticket link. (ticket price around 219E/3 days)

More info on the festival at : fluidityfestival.com/

📍 Wilde Möhre Festival Site

Past Events

Naughty or Nice
16:00

Naughty or Nice

An exclusive gathering of 40 open-minded individuals ready to revel in a night of socializing, sensual exploration, delightful feasting, and merry-making. Share your holiday cheer and indulge in delightful debauchery! We will start getting together from 16:00 in the afternoon and spend the day together, prepare the Christmas dinner and have a beautiful festive night.
📍 Friedrichshain
Munch
18:00

Munch

Join us at 'Munch' on December 21 for a relaxed and friendly gathering. Connect with others in a welcoming environment, perfect for good conversations and new friendships. 'Munch' emphasizes inclusivity and respect, offering a great opportunity to meet like-minded individuals and enjoy casual socializing. We focus on creating a safe and positive experience for all.
📍 Boxhagener
MMF 2:1 - Xmas
20:30

MMF 2:1 - Xmas

Gear up for an unforgettable Pre-Christmas MMF Extravaganza! This private sex party is for 30 exclusive guests, about women who love a bit of pampering and men who take pleasure in indulging and witnessing women in bliss. We're adding a festive dress code: Christmas accessories or red sexy outfits. Let's make it a night to remember with a touch of holiday glamour. With a carefully curated 2: 1 ratio, selected respectful men who know their way around pleasure, paired with confident women who appreciate being treated well.
📍 Friedrichshain
Xmas Market Munch
18:00

Xmas Market Munch

Join us for a festive celebration of joy and connection at the Xmas Market Munch, hosted at the beautiful Heissa Holtzmarkt. Embrace the warmth of the season as like-minded, sex-positive individuals gather to share laughter, stories, and fellowship in a safe and inclusive space. Revel in the spirit of community during this munch at the heart of the Christmas market. Unwrap the gift of connection with us as we toast to the holiday season and the bonds that make it truly special. See you there for an evening of festive cheer and delightful company!
📍 Heissa Holtzmarkt
First Blush
20:30

First Blush

Empowering New Experiences in a Safe, Intimate Setting. First Blush is a special event curated to ease the fears and amplify the joys of those stepping into the world of private parties. Here, the environment encourages freedom, authentic connections, and above all—your comfort.
📍 Friedrichshain
Couples & Unicorns
20:30

Couples & Unicorns

Couples and Unicorns is a unique gathering of 30 selected guests of adventurous duos, committed couples or playmates and extraordinary single women we lovingly call unicorns. You'll find an atmosphere filled with mutual respect and possibility. We provide the setting and the vibe. You bring your curiosity.
📍 Friedrichshain
No Theme
22:00

No Theme

This is the gathering where you can truly be yourself. Join us in a private apartment in F.hain with an intimate group of 30 guests. We're ditching the dress code, abandoning any specific theme, and leaving all expectations at the door. Whether you fancy showing up in your comfy pajamas, channeling your inner queen, or resurrecting last Halloween's costume – it's entirely up to you. This is our last-minute play party anarchy, creating a cozy haven for you to escape the rainy Berlin days.
📍 Friedrichshain
Naughty In Coulour - FLINTA edition
22:00

Naughty In Coulour - FLINTA edition

This special edition is not just another party; it’s a movement. It’s an invitation to celebrate diversity, to be yourself, and to pave the way for a future where labels are meaningless. An exclusive gathering of 30 open-minded individuals ready to revel in a night of socializing, sensual exploration, delightful feasting, in an 80/20 ratio—80% FLINTA individuals and 20% cis-men attendees. Join us in the path to inclusivity. In the path of sexuality without borders and boundaries.
📍 Friedrichshain
Drinks & Bubbles
22:00

Drinks & Bubbles

30 sexy guests, up to 45years old. Couples, playmates and singles are invited to our industrial style apartment in F.shain, for a night full of passion, laughs and sex in a friendly vibe. All genders are invited to revel in this night of electrifying liberation, however, gender balance will be kept.
📍 Friedrichshain
Trick or Tease?
20:00

Trick or Tease?

Get ready for a night of the wicked, where sensuality intertwines with playful provocations. Trick or Tease - Wicked Unleashed invites 30 daring souls to indulge in an evening of fearless desires and mischievous fun. Embrace the spooky, the kinky, and the irresistibly sexy. Show us your outfit, show us your mood for the night! Best attire wins!
📍 Friedrichshain
Imperial Soirée
20:00

Imperial Soirée

Immerse yourself in the decadent flavours of ancient Rome, meticulously prepared by our Professional Raw & Vegan Chef. But this isn't your typical dinner party—this expert culinary artist has crafted a menu that advocates the opulence of the era, using only the finest natural ingredients. 30 guests will have the opportunity to playfully embrace and exchange the ancient roles of masters and slaves, feeding each other in an intimate and sensual manner.
📍 Friedrichshain
First Blush: Your First Private Party
20:00

First Blush: Your First Private Party

A special event curated to ease the fears and amplify the joys of 30 guests, women stepping into the world of private parties and hand-picked, experienced men who excel in connecting without pressure. Here, the environment encourages freedom, authentic connections, and above all—your comfort.
📍 Friedrichshain